Staring
August 5th, 2008

Staring

Ah, staring. I suppose everyone does it. But sometimes I wonder if, not to be racist or anything, it’s more acceptable in other cultures than our own.

This incident happened when I went to get my ears pierced again. The store was literally empty when I was signing up to do it, which was good cause I didn’t want anyone to watch me get my ears pierced (firstly because I don’t like being stared at and secondly because I don’t like getting pierced with sharp objects). Of course, I had to sit at the front of the store… why DO they have ear piercing seats right up in front for the world to see? Then, as soon as we were getting ready (after I finally convinced my friends not to stare), two separate groups of people (one with a large family) set up camp right in front of me, just to stare. Literally! And I guess that’s what parents teach their children (along with a number of other impolite practices)… That it’s okay to stare, especially if someone’s getting hurt.

Then again, maybe they were just sadomasochists or something. They did seem pretty upset when I told them I wasn’t hurt.

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  1. ray

    i think if they put you in front of the window, thats an open invite for staring…i guess to drum up business. next time you should wear an offensive shirt of something so that they HAVE to put you in the back or are forced to put in their pixelly filter. i stole that idea from Linday lohans gay friend; she was wearing a shirt with a big man cock on it, forcing all magazines to blur it out if they want to print. BRILLIANT

  2. anonymous

    *Ray said: “she was wearing a shirt with a big man cock on it”*

    As opposed to a big female cock? Or a dog cock?

  3. shivi

    Ahhh, memories. If only you would have let me take pictures…

  4. Song

    Ahh, I can actually see that happening too…

  5. amanda

    I’ve realized that other countries put less value on personal space than we do in the U.S.

  6. khamsin

    …it’s because little girls LIKE that audience. It’s a big experience for them, and people applaud or cheer them on.

    For adults, there is a sister company who has the chair near the back. Just sayin’.

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